Surrendering the In Between

Surrendering the In Between

January 26, 20261 min read

There is a space in every healing journey that feels uncertain. The decision has been made, yet the outcome has not arrived. This is the in between.

It is a place where patience is tested and trust is required. Many people find this phase harder than the decision itself.

Why the In Between Exists

Once intention is set, life responds by revealing what stands in the way. Old patterns surface. Emotions intensify. The nervous system reacts to unfamiliar territory.

This does not mean healing is failing. It means healing is working.

Discomfort as a Guide

Discomfort often signals growth. When resistance arises, it is usually pointing toward something ready to be released.

Avoiding this stage keeps healing incomplete. Allowing it creates movement.

The Shift From Doing to Being

Healing often begins with effort and action. Over time, it becomes integrated. The body and mind learn safety. Change becomes embodied rather than forced.

This is where healing becomes sustainable.

Staying the Course

Transformation is not linear. It unfolds in layers. Each step builds capacity and resilience.

The in between is not a pause. It is an essential part of the process.

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Dr. Kristin Wild is the Founder and Director of Modern Health Solution™. She combines holistic education, clinical insight, and mind body understanding to support women navigating chronic illness, trauma, and life transitions with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.

Kristin Wild, PhD & MPCC

Dr. Kristin Wild is the Founder and Director of Modern Health Solution™. She combines holistic education, clinical insight, and mind body understanding to support women navigating chronic illness, trauma, and life transitions with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.

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